5.17.2009

A Time For Everything: Focus

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Ecclesiastes 3:1
There is an appointed time for everything. And there is a time for every event under heaven.

When we spread ourselves too thin, we get swept up in the midst of things that really don’t deserve our priority attention.

1. Focus on the task ahead of you (Keep the main thing the main thing)

*There may be many ‘good’ things for us to do or take part in, but what is the appropriate thing to do at that particular time, in that particular place?
Luke 10:38-42

Giving Priority to Secondary Matters - Martha was more concerned with her duties in the home, that even when Christ physically came to her home, she didn’t recognize the importance and opportunity. Sometimes, our duties will always be there, and there are times where we have to take a moment to just take a moment to soak it all in / to enjoy the things that God is doing around us, etc.

*God does not expect us to achieve a lifetime of tasks for every season at once.
Psalm 92:12-14
Tree advice I came across on a gardening site: “Your trees are still relatively young, where they bear nicely and then the following year very few will form; and I feel that they will progressively bear larger and better quality fruit as they age.”

2 . Remove the distraction
Media – computers, cell phones, im, etc
Jesus went away and prayed - After ministering, healing sick and afflicted in Capernaum:
Mark 1:35 - Luke 4:42
Solitude is important for prayer and refreshment, but will only be possible if we make it a priority. Jesus had to get up very early just to get some time alone. If Jesus needed solitude for prayer and refreshment, how much more is this true for us? Don’t become so busy that life turns into a flurry of activity leaving no room for quiet fellowship alone with God. No matter how much you have to do, you should always have time for prayer. Turn off all the electronics, all the ‘white noise’ that we say we cannot sleep without, etc.

3. The myth of multi-tasking
Do one thing and do it well. We are not called to do ALL THINGS all AT ONCE!
Psalm 90:12
People who multitask are less efficient than those who focus on one project at a time, says a study published in the Journal of Experimental Psychology... Managing two mental tasks at once reduces the brainpower available for either task, according to a study published in the journal NeuroImage. Sue Shellenberger ( from the Wall Street Journal), Star Telegram: "Multitasking Makes You Stupid, Studies Say"; 12/2/2003

4. Give yourself wholeheartedly (Be fully committed)
Philippians 3:14

- EMF Women's Month message

5.16.2009

Minister To 'Your' People...?

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‘Minister to Your People.’ That is what my husband was told back in the late 1990’s, on his journey to follow the path God had placed in his heart. Since he is a man of Hispanic heritage, for most, it would make sense that he would lead a solely Hispanic congregation. But who exactly are ‘our people’ to a Puerto Rican man and a Polish/Bulgarian/Who Knows What Else woman with African-American foster children?

Starting out, my husband was told by leaders flat out that a diverse church ‘Won’t happen. We’ve tried it before, and it didn’t work.’ Thankfully God soon opened many doors and also led us to connect with others with a vision that expanded beyond those boundaries. For over ten years now, we’ve served and gotten to know such a breadth of people from many cultures and walks of life. So what do you call that church?

And now, over ten years later, I am still confounded by the fact that churches are still referred to as ‘Hispanic’ or ‘Asian’, etc. I can’t help but feel misunderstood when we get pigeonholed as a ‘Hispanic’ church. All of the reporting forms and surveys we fill in typically only allow you to check one box regarding church culture. So which box? The people we serve span several cultural groups: African-American, Hispanic (and within that group there are sub-groups represented: Cuban, Mexican, Puerto Rican, etc), Asian (Hmong, Vietnamese), and White, or a combination of any of the above. And our youth group is even more diverse, if you can believe that’s possible. So, please, again, tell me, what do you call that church?

While we are a ‘small’ church, I believe God has begun a great work. I recall early discussions as our ministry was just beginning, where there was such hyper-sensitivity among leaders regarding race. ‘Do you prefer to be called Anglo, or European, or White?’ That was a time in our country where there was a strong push for ‘political correctness’, which in many ways put a wall up. People were hesitant to ask real questions for fear of offending someone by saying the wrong thing. Over the years, a sense of familiarity has developed as we’ve found connections beyond ‘race’ – in our life experiences, in our shared beliefs, struggles and triumphs. There is great beauty in hearing someone say they felt welcome because everyone is genuine. That did not happen unintentionally; it has taken years to develop. I believe that getting out of our comfort zones as it relates to race creates a much richer, fuller experience in life as well as ministry.

Now, consider the growing use of technology. The subsequent generations have much more easily embraced diversity. Social networking sites allow us to connect with friends spanning from Dubai to Duluth. Beyond that, even families are increasingly multi-cultural. The days of ‘Black, White and Brown’ have become a beautiful mosaic of shades that cannot be so easily labeled. Take a look at diversity statistics – Slightly more than one-third of the population of the United States – 34 percent – claims “minority” racial or ethnic heritage, a jump of 11 percent from 2000. The 2000 census was the first time people could identify themselves as having more than one race or ethnicity. In 2000, 6.8 million people reported more than one race.

How will we (as a church body) be ready to serve the coming generations, whose focus will not be based primarily upon cultural identity?